How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Have you ever forcibly sucked someone’s dick?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What is the best/cute/funny/playful chat/conversation between brother and sister?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What are some things that children used to wait for, but are no longer common in today's society?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do I sweat so much after applying moisture or sun screen on my face? I have normal skin.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What can I do to deal with disrespectful children?

That's it for today.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What is so great about Jiraiya?

Procrastinates a lot.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What is the most overrated pleasure? Why?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why do people hate fat people so much, even people who aren't exactly supermodels themselves? It seems like such a deep, passionate hatred, like they're offended by fat people just existing. Fat people didn't do anything to them, so why hate them?

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why do some men like older women?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How do I explain to my husband that my 19-year-old son has accidentally gotten me pregnant?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Making more friends is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How is it, in the USA, a country with 334 million people, the choice of President comes down to two aged men, one of whom is a liar as well as a criminal, one who appears to be on his way to dementia. Surely a democratic country can put up better?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What I need from you?

Does not procrastinate.